We cannot overemphasize the fact that sexual pleasure does not start and end under the pants.

A woman’s breasts provide great satisfaction for both partners but then again men now seem not to do that part right.

The implication is having a boring sex life where she just wants you to get in and get out.

But before you get to this stage, many things must have been done wrongly and those are the things we need to first identify.

Please note that not all breasts are the same. You will need to start out gently until you know what she likes or dislikes.

Here are few things you need to consider and dealing with them is either through verbal communication or paying attention to stimuli.

1. You’re not good at it

When you suck a woman’s boobs, you should be mild and romantic about it for it to be pleasurable. It is not food!

It has to be less mechanical but more sensual. Try out many sensations,  and pay attention to her body’s reaction.

Women know when you’re struggling to get it right and expect you to allow them help you but if you are too selfish to ask questions towards getting better, they start to avoid it.

And... what’s it with that saliva thing? Dude, its messy and can be a turnoff for many women.

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2. Early orgasm

The essence of sex is to have mutual satisfaction and making our women cum is usually the joy for us, but a little too early may not be good for her and definitely not good for you.

Nipple stimulation gets some women there and afterwards they wonder what just happened.

It is also likely to be a problem if she notices that her breasts make you cum quickly.

Bros, don’t be selfish. Kindly touch other things and leave the breast alone. She needs that satisfaction as much as you also need it.

3. It makes her lactate

This happens a lot, especially if she already had kids and breastfed.

It can be embarrassing for her when a bit of fluid is released courtesy of your suction. Except you like the taste of breast milk, even you will stop.

If breast sucking means a lot to your sexual satisfaction, you will need to learn how to do it with less pressure that will make you avoid getting fluid.

That way, you earn her trust that there will be no freaky moments.

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4. You don't respect the twins!

Finally, if you continue to treat her breast roughly, she will start shielding them from you.

You cannot be devouring her breasts, pulling on her nipples like you’re tearing sugarcane, that thing hurts.

Yes, some women want it rough, but to draw the line, you need to sometimes imagine if she bites your penis

"Some women want breast stimulation in the form of tender, soft teasing, and some want it rougher. You have to know your audience,” sex expert, Lora Somoza advises.


5. You don’t compliment her breasts

“Compliments are the most powerful aphrodisiacs and feeling comfortable in her skin will help to elevate her mood, libido, and sexual response,” says Dr. O’Reilly.

If you love her breasts, tell her and she will gladly release them for you.

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