Sex should always be fun, exciting and 100% enjoyable. Even if you and your partner have been together since the days of the dinosaurs, your sex life is one part of your relationship that must never grow old.

It's the weekend and a good time to try out some kinky sex

Sex is too important in a relationship to be basic. It should be spontaneous, mind-blowing and more!

That ‘more’ is what we’ll be discussing here. Let’s help you add a little pizzazz and colour to your sex life with these 2 kinky styles you can treat yourselves to every now and then.

 
1. Go BDSM

You may not have all the tools that Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele used in the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy, but you sure can improvise. BDSM is one form of sex that a lot of couples shy away from because it reveals both couple’s vulnerabilities (or maybe their dark sides) and it is generally believed to be risky. Well, who else would you rather be vulnerable with if not your partner? And as long as you have a safe word (which is a must when it comes to BDSM), you can explore each other’s fantasies without hurting one another. You’ll find that being dominant or submissive is incredibly erotic. A simple blindfold or tying of hands can have you panting in excitement within minutes. Let your imagination loose and see what happens next.

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2. Do it in public

Yup, you read that right. Public sex is daring, super exciting and very very crazy! But the thrill of getting caught while you and your partner are ‘bumping and grinding’ is totally insane. Now, we don’t mean you two should go to the middle of a Lagos market in broad daylight to ‘knack’ yourselves. Nope, that’s not it. Imagine having sex at night on your balcony with the stars shinning on your bare bottoms, knowing one of your neighbours might see you. Or excusing yourselves at a party and rushing off to the restroom together for one explosive quickie. The fact that you’re doing this in a place where anyone could see, is the main attraction here. However, you shouldn’t make it obvious because if someone actually discovers you guys, it could be incredibly embarrassing and you may not even have had the chance to do the deed. 

Be guided as you have fun!